Argumental episodes.

   What does it mean when an argument arises in a relationship? Does it merely mean a difference in opinion, or does it spell out a near future demise in what now seems like innocent puppy love. I see couples all over, arguing constantly, but these are the couples that have been together for years and years, and the arguing over time has lost its meaning and has become something more of a habitual ritual. It confuses the living crap out of me, making me wonder if arguing so early on is healthy. It makes me wonder if I should muster up enough strength to put an end to it, before the arguing and frustration gets out of hand and morphs itself into hate and despise. It makes me wonder. A part of me thinks that it's okay to argue, even more than okay, somewhat healthy actually – letting out all the accumulated tension to the one person that's supposed to be there to help you get through whatever you're feeling. And then another part of me thinks "remember the last time you argued with someone so much? Look what happened there – a sudden goodbye but a lingering heartbreak that only finally managed to mend itself as of late". And the only thing I keep asking myself is – is this all worth it?